Wednesday 05/20/09All three of us were back in HK now. Boss had a good trip in BJ and we're going for another round of negotiations. This time around, everything went quite well and we were expecting that the details would be ironed out in the next day. We were supposed to have dinner with one of our clients but he canceled on us last minute so I actually had time to meet with my friends. Miu Lee was coming by to drop by a wallet that she got for me because I brought up in casual conversation that I needed one (yup, this is the type of sweet friends I have) so I just grabbed her and also called Ron out. I also contacted Sipak Robin since I wasn't sure if I had another chance to meet with him. Even though it was so last minute, everyone was kind enough to run out and meet me around Times Sq. At that time I had a massive headache/migraine and was feeling ill, but I wasn't going to miss the rare chance to hang out with everyone before I run back to NYC even though if I ended up moving to HK I’d have plenty of opportunities. Never wait – NEVER wait to do something you really want to do or say the things you want to say– that’s the lesson I’ve learned.
On the way there, I started feeling really unwell and after an unsuccessful walk around Sogo (food level, ML knew better than to take me to the shopping center), I had ML half carry me to Hui Lau San across the street and I collapsed there for about an hour while ML ate her mango pudding. Having a migraine is possibly one of the worst things ever to have to go through. Someone described it as a “near death” experience every time. There's just no way to stop it. It was not just pain; it was a dizziness that I didn't know how to deal with and that brought on near-despair. I would have been happy to roll on the ground if I could get rid of the pain. But nope, that wasn't going to work. Finally, by the time Ron got here, I reached my limit. The bathroom at HLS was “in repair” (although we saw people coming in and out) so I just ran out to the streets (right across from Sogo), leaned on a post and... eventually puked my brains out.
After puking – ahh... alive again. The lady at the newspaper stand right in front of HLS offered me some ointments but I politely declined (I didn’t want to stink like Chinese medicine the whole night) and she ended up putting some newspaper over… err… the parts of me left behind at Times Sq ^^b.
Fortunately, that meant that by the time Sipak Robin got there, I was about 50%. I thought it was amusing since none of the 3 of them knew each other and we just sat at the same table and chatted about random things. If I had been well I could've handled the situation better... but I was barely able to hold myself together. But everyone was well behaved (lol) and sociable and everything went smoothly.
After chatting for about an hour (this is after I had been sitting there for an hour already), we felt bad for the crowd waiting out side (we were all done with our drinks) so left. Ron was kind enough to walk me home and we had a nice chat. It was strange since we met up less than 2 weeks (but felt like a lifetime) ago in New York. This was when I thought moving to HK wouldn't be so bad after all. I have a lot of great friends in HK and I could travel anywhere in Asia easily.
Thursday 05/21/09As I had learned before, it’s when you thought something was going to work for sure and you take it for granted that it falls completely apart. It was a strange morning... but it's amazing how much your life trajectory can change in one day.
We had a negotiation meeting in the beginning and somehow it just started falling apart. I didn't understand what was going on but was trying my best to salvage things. But I could clearly feel that the two sides were drifting apart and if that was what my boss wanted (I wasn't sure if we were having “real” differences or if this was just part of their strategy) at some point I just gave up.
After we walked out, my boss and teammate told me they had something to tell me and to be prepared: the group that we had been negotiating with for the past two weeks were professional con men and are actually wanted criminals in China. My boss and teammate spent the previous evening “dealing” with the issue at the police station and then decided to keep me in the dark for my own good (so I could actually be surprised if the police showed up). Let's just say, that was probably the biggest shock of my life and it twisted everything around in 1 minute. I think due to my Libra personality, I was able to deal with it very quickly. In some way, I'm relieved. Everyone else was somewhat flipping out still, but I think that things work out in their own ways. One of my teammates laughing commented that this could be in the next John Grisham novel. ^^
Since we had the rest of the afternoon off and A was busy, I decided to run off to the IWTA HK HQ and do a little shopping (yes I was actually able to SHOP for some stuff). I got off at Mong Kok instead of Tsim Sha Tsui because I really wanted to walk. On the way there, I was able to pick up the stuff my mom wanted (random pharmacy on the way there) and also got HLS again. It was really funny since I had REALLY wanted HLS but didn't see one anywhere on my way down from Mong Kok. Then when I almost at the HQ I took a detour to visit the TinHau temple and lo and behold there was HLS straight across from the temple! So yea… somehow things just... turn out right in their own ways. ^^
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I met up with Sipak, who helped me do the WT shopping and then took me over to the HQ's and took some pictures. It was really funny to be in the HQ (although it was empty, maybe for the best because I didn't have to figure out how to address everyone >_<) and see all the pictures and banners. We started taking funny pictures but I didn’t dare pose with the wooden dummy because I felt like I was still inadequate. Then later in the evening I went to dinner with my boss and a large media group and had an interesting conversation. It never ceases to amuse me how much my boss knows about China and the connections that he has. After dinner A+A came to my hotel room (ML wasn't able to make it) and we just spent some time chatting. I preferred this so much more than hanging out in a shopping mall.
It's been an amazing trip. I've learned tons, met people I never dreamed of meeting, saw the HQ's of IWTA and got some items and books, and got to see some of my best friends!
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Friday 05/22/09Time to go back to NYC! I realized that:
1) You can check in at the Central Airport Express location and you only need to get there about 2 hours in advance because the line is very short.
2) But these are morphing check in counters, i.e. if your flight is in the morning and that’s that particular airline’s only flight out of HK for the day, then your counter will be gone in the afternoon.
3) If you’re with a handicapped person (o_O) you get through the lines a LOT faster.
On the other side of the ocean (and time difference)… it felt good to be home!!! I ended up working until late to unpack and organize everything.. Whatever life has planned for me… I shall face it with the new experiences and wisdom I’ve gained from my trip! Everything somehow works out… somehow. ^^